Spectator Rules During Matches
Every parent wants to see his or her child score a goal, make a big play and be on a winning team. That is natural and can often lead to over-zealous behavior on the sidelines. Therefore, our Club has adopted some spectator rules, which we ask, and expect, to be followed:
- All spectators are required to sit on the opposite sideline from the coaches and players and may not stand or sit on the goal lines or behind the goals. This ensures minimal interference with team play and makes it easier for the players to hear their coaches during the course of play.
- Spectators should not coach any player during a game. They should not give instructions to their own son or daughter and most definitely may not tell someone else's child what to do. This leads to confusion and may conflict with a coach's directions. Even if you disagree with the coach, you must remember the coach is in charge of the team, not the spectators.
- Spectators should not shout the name of a player (except with positive remarks), including their own child during play. General cheers such as, "Great play! Well done! Let's go, Blue!" etc., are preferred and should be positive or encouraging comments after the fact.
- Spectators may not talk to or shout at the referee at matches. Youth referees are learning a sport with complex rules and will make their share of mistakes. They don't need the pressure of spectator abuse. The Club has a referee evaluation program to help them improve. Irate spectator comments only discourage them from continuing to be a referee. Show them some respect for having the courage to step on the field as a referee. It's not an easy job!
We expect all parents to abide by these rules. Your cooperation is appreciated! To help ensure compliance, Commissioners, Field Monitors and Referees monitor spectators. Infractions of the rules will bring a warning and continued disregard will result in a stoppage of play until there is compliance. Bring a chair, sit back, relax and cheer positively for every good play made by both teams. Seek out players, coaches and other parents after the match and say something positive and personal to them. Enjoy the beauty of soccer and do everything possible to enhance everyone's experience, hiding your desire to win behind warm and positive comments about a child's job well done!